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Mental Tricks Pornstars Use To Stay Focused During Sex
Sex can be one of the most awesome, sweet, life-changing, and memorable stuff you can ever get up to. But sex can also be scary, stressful, and tiring, to the point where you lose focus and might even forget you are having sex with your crush, partner, mother-in-law or the local pastor’s wife. Persistent loss of focus during sex can be due to unresolved sexual trauma, body image issues, inadequate self-esteem, previous bad experiences during sexual intercourse, or performance anxiety and the whole thing can be scary and annoying to deal with, not to mention possibly pissing off your sexual partners, who might think you are more into daydreaming than fucking the bejesus out of them!
As everyone knows, pornstars are sex pros who have been at it longer than most and have loads of hard-won skills and experience. And so, today, we are gonna detail those mental tricks that pornstars use to stay focused and deliver epic fuckathons that get their sex partners moaning with total abandon!
Here are them tricks:
#1 Get Into It
Getting into it has to do with setting the mood for the coochie-shifting you got all planned. Candles that smell amazing, music that happens to be your favorite or that of your crush, kids, if any, assuredly sleeping or holidaying with their grandparents, and the bedroom you are in feeling all comfy are all part of what you can do to set the mood and reduce the chances of being distracted. Yeah, fuck where it feels super comfy and safe and if that’s not your bedroom or bathroom, it better not be ours!
#2 Find and Fix Issues
Wanna get some ass cheeks clapping, but there’s a ticking clock that annoys the hell outta you? Well, turn it off, or try to ignore it. The bed sheet feeling itchy? Then change it for a fresh one. What about a barking neighborhood dog or the punk across the street that’s inconsiderately revving his Italian sports bike at 9pm? In cases like that, you can draw your curtains, close your windows, and largely shut off the annoying sounds. But you can as well buy earplugs for you and the missus, or go out on your front porch and let the neighbors know that you don’t appreciate the noise they and their pets are making. The whole thing has to do with fixing annoying issues that distract the hell outta you, rather than waiting for them to stop by themselves. Can’t fix a particular issue, just like a pornstar at a set who can’t control what’s going on? Then use those earplugs, incorporate the noise into your fuck play, or teach yourself how to ignore and not react to even the most strident and annoying sounds that set your teeth on edge.
#3 Learn How To Breathe
Noticed your focus is wandering and you are putting a shopping list together when you are supposed to be pounding jellied cum out of your partner? You can get that focus back with the right breathing techniques. Deep breaths is what some pornstars use when their mind gets to wandering and it enables a quick and easy restoration of focus. Plus it makes you feel invigorated, and in the mood for more bedroom action. You can practice breathing techniques anytime and every time and they are easy enough to master.
#4 Focus On How It Feels
It’s much harder to become distracted if you focus on how everything feels. Stuff like the how hot or soft your partner’s skin feels, what she tastes like, how she pants for you, and what her tongue does to yours can feel so amazing. Yeah, immerse yourself in the moment and it should be easy to focus on doing stuff that gets enchanting reactions from your partner. Getting a bit bored during sex? Then change positions, maybe plug a different hole, try another XXX style, or introduce XXX toys into the mix.
#5 Talk Dirty
Dirty talks can be an underappreciated sex-focusing aid. They entertain, and delight, while being able to trigger laughs and giggles. So, run your mouth like a dockyard tap and make sure your partner reciprocates, while you run your fingers across their body beautiful, pinching and massaging as you go.
#6 Train Your Body
It is fully possible to train yourself to ignore distracting sounds and sensations. That takes time and effort though. Regular mindfulness meditation, for example, can help you focus better on what you are doing and luxuriate in the varied sensations you are enjoying. It can help improve focus on the physical sensations felt during intercourse and can be effectively used by anyone of any sex or sexuality who wants to or plans on getting freaky and is intent on delivering a focused kind of fuck.
#7 Look At Her
According to pornstars, eye contact is hella important in keeping you focused on what you are doing. It can be incredibly erotic too and deepens the connection between you and your partner. So, if you are ever distracted during sex, looking your partner in the eye, smiling, and maybe joking around with her can give you the focus you need to bang that pussy back to the stone age! And as regards sex styles that are optimum for eye contact, we can recommend the tried, tested, trusted, and old but good missionary XXX style!
#8 Fantasize
Having a hard time focusing during sex? Well, you could try fantasizing that what you are doing is all shades of illegal and immoral and could get you 10 life sentences in Alcatraz! To make the fantasy more believable, you might hang banners on the walls of your bedroom, have specific music playing, wear specific clothing, and generally roleplay the hell out of the fantasy.
#9 Practice Makes Perfect
The key to not staying distracted during sex is constantly practicing what keeps you focused. Is it breath control, mindfulness training, therapy, certain sounds or smells, or certain XXX toys? Well then, be sure to discover what works well to keep you focused and stick to it. That’s what pornstars do and you are well on the way to joining their league!
And that’s all for now on the mental tricks that pornstars rely on to focus during sex, folks! Loved this article? Well then, be sure to regularly check in for more of the same!
